The House of KWIK womxn bdsm play party is exclusively for womxn. The KWIK Womxn acronym stands for: Kinky Womxn Into Kinky Womxn. We’ve been organizing munches, workshops and talks. Our mission is for us to meet each other, have fun together and get inspired by our awesome queer kinky peers and kindred spirits.
Womxn only
We’re welcoming those who identify as womxn; trans-women, cis-women and also intersex and non-binary folks who still feel connected to the womxn community.
Cis-men, mtf cross dressers/ transvestites and men experimenting with gender roles are NOT part of KWIK as we focus on a womxn’s space. If you are so-called ‘male-presenting’ and unsure whether you would fit in, please contact us via kwik.women@gmail.com or send ua a DM via our KWIK fetlife account.
Consent is key. Ask before you act. Only yes means yes. “Red” will be a universal safe word at the party, DMs (dungeon masters) will always act upon ignoring ‘red’ as a safe word.
House rules
- No camera’s and/or other recording devices allowed. This includes the use of smart phones. What happens at House of KWIK, stays at House of KWIK.
- Blood, scat, fire, candle and needle play are not allowed at the party.
- For hygienic reasons, watersports/ piss play is only allowed at the shower area downstairs.
- Red will be a universal safe word at the party, DMs will always act upon ignoring ‘red’ as a safe word.
- 2 drinks minimum order at the bar
- Smoking and drug use are not allowed. Please, drink responsibly and don’t play when drunk/intoxicated. DM’s will always act upon drunk/ intoxicated behaviour.
- Seek clear, enthusiastic consent before beginning any scene. HoK is a party where you will see other people play, and show off their skin and body parts. Remember that watching up close, commenting audibly, or masturbating at the scene in front of you is a form of participation and you will need to ask consent in order to do any of this first. This also means that you’ll need to refrain from doing so when a scene has already started before you asked for consent.
- Never interrupt a scene (except for immediate danger).
- Play and sex are encouraged. People showing off more skin and body parts is to be expected but only ‘direct your show’ towards people who gave you their enthusiastic consent prior. No solo wanking.
- If you plan for more elaborate, risky play or if you have specific health care needs please consult with our DM’s beforehand.
!If any of the above is violated, please address the issue with the person(s) involved and/or talk to the DM so we can take action. This will be specific to the situations but can translate into:
- Addressing people about their behaviour.
- Remove or deny people from the room, event or organisation
- Facilitate conversation or dialogue
- Provide education
No DM can monitor every interaction all the time, so we call upon all of our guests to notify the DM/organisers a.s.a.p when they feel action (or any form of care) is necessary!
Dresscode
We encourage wearing an outfit that makes you feel sexy, sassy, hot, in power, powerless, cute, comfortable, subby, bunny or whatever gets you into play party modus. No streetwear please, make it special…
What to bring
This is a bring your own toys event, so if you plan to use more than your own body please bring your play bag. If you think that things might get sexy, please bring your own gloves, dental dams and or condoms and tidy up after yourselves so we keep the venue clean for the other attendants. This is a communal space and we do not want to spread bodily fluids (via hands or toys) onto others without them knowing and/or consenting to that.
Diversity
We deeply value diversity. This includes but is not limited to differences in ethnicity, gender, gender identity and expression, religion or belief, bodily features, sexual orientation, age, kink/fetishes, relationship status, origin, physical or mental abilities, social status, etc. There will be no room for any form of violence, discrimination, harassment, shaming, exclusion, etc.
Keep it clean
BDSM play and sex is encouraged. We strongly advocate safe sex and use of condoms, gloves, and dental dams. Using these items will not only prevent STD’s from spreading but also keeps our communal space clean. Also bring something to cover the floor/furniture if you think bodily fluids may ‘spill’ onto the floor/furniture. Let’s make sure no other guests get in contact with your or your partners’ bodily fluids without their consent.
